My Take: Why I’m a Catholic for contraception
Editor's Note: Karalen L. Morthole is a senior majoring in political science at Catholic University of America.By Karalen L. Morthole, Special to CNN
I have been a Catholic my whole life. Baptized as a baby and confirmed in the seventh grade, I attended weekly catechism classes and received a Jesuit education. Never once did the opinion of the church on a person's use of contraceptives surface.
In high school, I was prescribed birth control to balance my hormones. I suffered from terrible mood swings that had negative effects on my relationship with my family and got me into trouble with teachers. I also experienced menstrual cramps so painful as to be debilitating; sometimes, they left me unable to move.
My mother, a devout Catholic, had no problem with my taking birth control, because she recognized the dramatic effects this simple medication had on my life. Birth control gave me a new, healthy and balanced way to live. As a 22-year-old woman, I am able to think more rationally because of birth control.
Teachers at the Jesuit high school I attended urged students to protect themselves when they became sexually active, to use condoms to stamp out the risk of contracting a viral sexually transmitted disease that would affect the rest of their lives. Some would criticize my teachers for that, but I thank them. My peers and I were taught by caring and realistic teachers with experience making decisions to promote their own health. Some had seen the horrors of sexually transmitted diseases.
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Here is an example of a young woman, raised Catholic, at peace with the concept of birth control even within her Catholic upbringing. It is possible to be religious and reasonable, as this woman shows..
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I do believe most people are rational, but they (we) don't make the news. If it isn't extreme they don't report it and then it becomes easy to believe that the extreme is the norm.
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You are right, Anna. It is unfortunate that voices of rationality do not get the attention they deserve. That is why we have the plight we do today. Thanks for visiting and your valuable comment!
This is a principled, logical position taken by many intelligent Catholic women.
That is not to be confused with the illogical, indefensible position of the Catholic Church:
The Church has always maintained the historic Christian teaching that deliberate acts of contraception are always gravely sinful, which means that it is mortally sinful if done with full knowledge and deliberate consent (CCC 1857). This teaching cannot be changed and has been taught by the Church infallibly.
There is no way to deny the fact that the Church has always and everywhere condemned artificial contraception. The matter has already been infallibly decided. The so-called "individual conscience" argument amounts to "individual disobedience."
In other words, "just say no" to contraception.
Prohibiting contraception is one of the main reasons Catholics leave the Church. And for those who are listening, the Church DOES NOT CARE about you. In fact, if you can't follow their archaic and senseless rules, they WANT you to leave.
I did. For a lot of reasons. And I never looked back.
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bilweeler, you have it spot on. There is a real disconnect between the Catholic church and the people who have reasoned and come to their own logical conclusions about what its principles, practice and teachings are. So, if the church won't allow them to remain Catholic and use birth-control, they choose to leave, and continue using birth-control. They may still continue to have their relationship with God, but they choose to leave the archaic church out of it.
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